so many....

ok - for those of you who had a baby - they are precious and adorable and i love them so please do not be insulted by my ramblings...

however - i feel like i have been bombarded with baby pics on facebook! everyone seems to be pregnant or having a baby and it seems to have happened all of a sudden!

now - im truly and deeply happy for so many couples..the ones who went about it the way God wants it to, but some didn't and for those people the miracle of the baby is wonderful but i'm not so thrilled for them for some reason...its not as beautiful when it's not the way God wants it...the baby is beautiful and a miracle and creation of God...but the way some went about it was wrong and sinful n in that i am not as happy and joyful in that birth...

am i judgmental? am i cruel? am i mean spirited and uncaring?

no, i think not...there is a reason God tells one man and one woman to marry and to be fruitful and multiply - thats how it's supposed to be....a family. a foundation. a balance. and it's just plain...awkward when the other half isn't in the picture (by choice) and can create a lot of adversity that wouldn't exist if said picture was filled in completely. now am i saying God can't work in that situation? no, and it happened so therefore it was also part of God's will for those people...but it just saddens me and my heart breaks when it happens the the way God did not intend for it to.

The end.